Today two women unloaded on me their feelings. One was dumped for the umpteenth time by the guy she has been in a relationship with for four years. The other has a husband who disappeared when given divorce papers to sign after cheating on her for a year longer than their marriage with her best friend, so she is looking at how to proceed as abandonment.
Some time ago, I accepted people need to clear their minds. Telling someone, even a stranger or acquaintance frees the mind somewhat.